One-of-Those Wednesdays: Mosh Starters

There are always “those people” at rock shows. Those people who do things that are annoying and/or dangerous that most people know not to do. Whether those people are oblivious or just do not care, it is time to become more aware.

I am creating One-of-Those Wednesdays to call out those people who do not have proper concert-going etiquette as well as to help those around them keep watch for and cope with their shenanigans.

To kick things off I am going to start with those who inspired the blog. In other words, those people who start a mosh pit without considering where they are.

Image credit: Ashley Aron

In my own personal, extreme opinion—and you can share with me what you think—nobody should mosh. Not only is it dangerous, but it is distracting. I am aware that not everyone goes for the music (which will probably be another One-of-Those Wednesdays) but I can genuinely say that I do. I go to see bands play live because I want to see them play live. It is as simple as that.

I have been caught in several unwanted moshing experiences and they were not pleasant. I was at the First Midwest Bank Amphitheatre watching SensesFail’s set during Warped Tour 2012 and a mosh pit broke out right in front of me. I went to back up, but the small fence protecting their merch tent was right behind me. I was trapped with only one line of non-moshers in front of me. I enjoyed the performance, but it was extremely distracting and a bit frightening. I understood that it was highly likely that I would see a mosh pit during a Senses Fail performance. It just upset me that I was already towards the back and I had to back up even further. People like me often have to struggle to see while the pits take up valuable standing space.

It was even scaryier when I saw (Hed) P.E. at Smith’s in Mishawaka. The pit took up half of the room! At first security tried to stop it, but Jared Gomes (the lead singer) talked them into letting them continue. After a bottle came flying in my direction, I hid behind one of the pillars. Every once and awhile I would look over and see a tornado of alcohol and testosterone whirling around only a few feet away from me. How is that enjoyable?

What I understand less than mosh pits is women in mosh pits. Not only are women naturally smaller than most men, it is socially unacceptable for men to act violently towards them. So they have to know going in that they are not going to be treated the same, right?

I am not saying moshing should be outlawed. I just think more people should be aware of proper moshing etiquette and considerate of those who are there to watch the band. Since I am more of an expert at avoiding a mosh pit than being in one, check out these other great blog posts entitled “10 rules of mosh pit etiquette” and "Mosh Pit Etiquette." Some of the main points I am trying to get across are mentioned in them as well.

Basically, people who decide to start a mosh pit need to make sure the people they decide to push are willing and ready to push back. There is a time and a place and fellow moshers are fairly easy to spot. Usually they are in those middle hotpots and they make visible their energy levels. 

Take note, people like the girl who tried to start a mosh pit with me and the people next to me at the Taproot concert at The Orbit Room. If someone is standing to the far left, is facing the stage, and is not moving any part of their body other than their head while they sing along, they are probably paying more attention to the band. Do not shove them from behind and then call them lame when they give a look of disapproval and refuse to shove back. Do not be one of those people.